17. Loving your neighbour
A. Relationships - God’s highest priority
God is love - it is His, and our, basic nature;
we need one another;
life’s greatest joys, fulfilment and satisfaction come from Godly relationships;
we are at our best when all relationships are right.
B. Sin affected man’s relationship with God
Gen. 3:8 - Adam and Eve ran away and hid - estrangement
C. Sin affected man’s relationship with man
Cain killed Abel;
men and women have been fighting ever since (see also: Gen. 5: 1-3).
D. Salvation reconciled us to God
through Jesus paying for our sin;
now we have this ministry of reconciliation to pass on to others;
we are now in a position to be reconciled to others.
E. We are in covenant with God
an eternal contract;
drawn up by the Greater, binding Himself into it, when the smaller accepts it.
F. All God’s people are bound into convenant
Christian relationships are covenant relationships,
compared to casual and functional relationships;
they are unconditional.
G. We are like parts of a human body
we are different, yet one (unity in diversity) - vv. 12-14 ;
we are part of the body, whether we like it or not - vv. 15, 16 ;
each part has its valuable function - v. 17 ; Eph. 4: 11, 16 ;
each part must be placed by God - v. 18 , i.e. be in the right local church!
each part needs the others - vv. 19-22 ;
some parts are more presentable and honoured than others, but all are important - vv. 23, 24 ;
there must be no division - v. 25 ;
we must all suffer, be honoured, and rejoice together - v. 26 .
H. “The one anothers” - we must build relationships according to God’s principles and values:
01 - love one another - Jhn. 13: 34, 35
02 - accept one another (do not judge one another) - Rom. 14:1-3, 15: 7
03 - forgive one another - 2Cor. 2: 6 ff , Eph.4 : 31, 32
04 - forbear one another (“make allowance for each other’s faults” – the Living Bible) - Eph. 4: 2
05 - restore one another - Gal. 6:1
06 - bear one another’s burdens (be kind and tenderhearted) - Gal. 6 : 2
07 - do not cause one another to stumble - Rom.14:13, 14
08 - serve one another - Jhn.13:15
09 - caring for one another -Phil. 2: 4
10 - preferring one another - Phil. 2: 3
11 - do not wrong one another - Lev. 25:17
12 - speak no evil of one another - James 4:11
13 - be truthful and honest with one another - Eph. 4: 25
14 - be devoted to one another (loyal) - Rom.12:10
15 - giving to one another - Rom.12:13
16 - rejoice with one another - Rom.12:15
17 - weep with one another - Rom.12:15
18 - be of the same mind to one another - Rom. 12:16
19 - never take revenge on one another - Rom.12:19
20 - stimulate one another - Heb.10: 24
21 - encourage one another - Heb. 3:13